Mary Oliver, poet
The years leading up to and beyond menopause can be a meaningful time of renewal, reflection, and possibility. With openness and curiosity, this transition can become an invitation to thoughtfully shape the life you want to live now. You may find yourself exploring new relationships, interests, work, places to call home, ways to spend your time and energy, and a deeper sense of wellbeing. Wherever you are in this transition, you don’t have to sort through it all on your own.
You may be here because you’re moving through changes that feel tender, confusing, or hard to name. Many women reach out when they’re:


Welcome! I’m Erica Sarnes, founder of Indigo Tangles, and I created this coaching space for women navigating the menopause transition with curiosity, compassion, and a desire to be aligned with their true purpose. Here, you're invited to slow down, untangle what feels complicated, and reconnect with the wisdom, strength, and inspiration already within you.
My own path through menopause has brought change, reflection, and deep learning. It’s invited me to listen more closely to myself, honor what’s shifting, and make space for the woman I’m becoming. Along the way, I’ve learned to:
What I’ve learned through this transition continues to shape the way I support others: with curiosity and authenticity, honoring each woman's unique journey. I hold space for it all—the big, the small, the messy, and the tender.
Three pillars will guide our journey, helping you feel grounded, connected, and empowered to step into what's next.

Creating a steady foundation from which you can pause, listen inward, reconnect with yourself, and choose what comes next with clarity and confidence

Welcoming back the meaningful parts of yourself that may have been quieted, set aside, or left behind, so you can reconnect with your core self and sense of purpose

Making room for the life that’s calling you now by clearing what’s holding you back, honoring your passions, and clarifying what you truly want and creating space for it with intention
Let's connect and talk about where you are in your menopause transition, what's feeling challenging, and what you're longing for in this season of life.
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